The real reason to get to know your photographer
One of my best friends just gave birth to identical twins. Like, genetically identical. Before they were born she read blogs about the different ways parents of twins deal with telling the babies apart. Apparently this is a legitimate concern! But true to the nature of parenthood, once the mini-muffins arrived all her concerns were alleviated (well, not ALL of them… I mean she does have two newborn babies to take care of). “I feel like I can already see the difference in their personalities,” she sighed lovingly...
Is the lack of sleep making her delusional? Is it the narcotic love-drug making her hallucinate!? I don’t think so. Because, when you get to know someone, you see their uniqueness. Even if they share the same looks and mannerisms as someone else, when you know them-- you See Them. You just do.
No big surprise, it’s the same for weddings.
Getting ready is a family affair...
...babies, best friends, sisters...
...and who can forget our furry friends!
I have photographed more than 180 weddings. More than once I’ve been asked, “Don’t you get bored? All weddings are the same.” Well now! The asker of this question soon finds out I’m not as cynical as all that (LOL have you even met me??)!
But I have a proven technique to remedy this exact situation: I get to know people.
When you know someone, you see their uniqueness and it's the same for weddings
As the person documenting your wedding my goal is to know you, so when I see your wedding I see your specialness (yes, the way your mom sees you).
I have witnessed age-old cultural traditions again and again. I’ve watched wedding trends in décor, cakes, dresses and music come and go. I’ve listened to countless readings, vows, speeches and roasts. And I still get teary-eyed. I won’t lie – I can tell who’s speaking from the heart versus who googled “Best Man Speech” but that’s ok. Not everyone is born to be a toast-master.
Every wedding is different because couples and families are different, once you get to know them. And all wedding photographers are different too.
"It's not what you look at that matters, it's what you see.” – Henry David Thoreau
Unbeknownst to most of us, all we can see is who we are. I photograph how I see you. The next photographer has different experiences, different values, a different worldview. They can only capture how they see you.
When you know a person, you see them for who they are. My goal is to build relationships with my clients so I can see the unique beauty of their wedding, no matter what.
Mel & Roy chartered a streetcar to transport their closest friends across Toronto in style!
Cocktail hour scavenger hunt on a farm in Price Edward County...
...or cocktails at Hotel Ocho in downtown Toronto.
Ashley wore the wedding dress of her mother & grandmother before her... but had it altered into a summer party dress for her outdoor wedding at the Aberfoyle Mill.
David & Saraya's celebrations included Armenian, Chinese & Nordic traditions, and a hot pair of Louboutins!
Guests always find ways to amuse themselves...
...including the groom's parents requesting a "paddle" pic during ping-pong hour at SPiN.
Getting to know your photographer isn't about whether they like cats or dogs (cats), or long walks on the beach. Building a relationship can mean the difference between having authentic documentation of your wedding or ending up with cookie-cutter images just like everyone else's. So let's get to know each other over the next couple years. Let's fall in love.
